John Thornton: Miss Hale, I didn't just come here to thank you. I came... because... I think it... very likely... I know I've never found myself in this position before. It's... difficult to find the words. Miss Hale, my feelings for you... are very strong... 
Margaret Hale: Please! Stop. Pray, please don't go any further.  
 Please don't continue in that way. It's not the way of a gentleman. 
John Thornton: I'm well aware that in your eyes at least, I'm not a gentleman. But I think I deserve to know why I am offensive. 
Margaret Hale: It offends me that you should speak to me as if it were your... duty to rescue my reputation! 
John Thornton: I spoke to you about my feelings because I love you; I had no thought for your reputation! 
Margaret Hale: You think that because you are rich, and my father is in... reduced circumstances, that you can have me for your possession! I suppose I should expect no less from someone in trade! 
John Thornton: I don't want to possess you! I wish to marry you because I love you! 
Margaret Hale: You shouldn't! Because I do not like you, and never have. 

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